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^_^ I call her Trance, too. She goes by Trance-Hime to me.

Sure, Trance. I have no problem changing your name for you. If the forum had a thousand members and I'd get swamped by requests, there's no way I'd do it, but ^_^ we're such a small group that the occassional name change here and there I don't have a problem with.

Aw, btw, Trance: the avatar is cute... it's not a trap, though, is it? (Prolly)

what about me

If you want a name change, that's fine, too, Seni. ^_^

not at this time

i can't think of something to embrass trancey with

so no name change for now

Does anyone else feel that calling someone a 'trap' is kinda mean?

I would like to be known as Awesome Moderator of Everlasting Terror, please.

totally joking.

I'm glad the everlasting terror will be awesomely moderated by you

I always thought trap = specific anime/manga character type, somewhat congruous to the way "Shota" or "loli" can demean certain characters or series. We would call these "pedophilia" in the real world, or perhaps "pederast" or "catamite" if you were feeling especially historical about it.

I would never think to call a human a trap. Genderqueer is a term I've heard used for those who don't quite fit our one-or-the-other idea of gender. Transsexual, as I understand it, is a term used more for one who has had surgery or otherwise re-assigned their gender. Transgender is a more mild term, for those who have not had surgery or feel it unnecessary; they're still boys, but self-identify as girls (or vise-versa). Transvestites merely adopt the clothing and styles of the other gender, but still self-identify with their own; Eddie Izzard, who wears girls clothes but is a heterosexual man, is an example of this. Drag queens are their own little niche of genderqueer culture, same as drag kings. The intersxed can refer to those whose sexual organs aren't quite one-or-the-other; the slightly more vulgar term is hermaphrodite.

At least, this is what I understand of it.

I thought the term transsexual is for people born with the wrong mind regardless of whether they have had surgery or not, and transgender for those who did.