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I hate my phone...

I got one of those "cool" galaxy S droid 4G phones, it's impossible to operate...

I can't wait until the future when I can just use these things with my mind...

I sound like an old person...-_-

Wow! I think Scy's got it in a nutshell here. I especially liked the part under the spoiler tags. And Scy's in Texas?! : OOOOO

Doing nothing really is important here. I've been on the other side of your situation, Drathi, as the girl needing the space and not wanting the guy to be around for a while. I've also been on your side of things being the one wanting to communicate and being pushed away. Backing off and pursuing your own interests is KEY here. It can be very difficult and a bit painful, but you'll grow as a result. Take up knitting, read a book, go for long walks, start a journal, start a baseball team, play video games, DO WHATEVER IT TAKES to fill up your time and stay off the radar.

^ ^;; There. My two cents. <3

I don't think I have anything to rant about in my life... Wait! /puts on angry face Uhm, grrrrr, I made this smoked tomato ( tomatoes fresh from my garden!!! x3 ) and paprika soup and it turned out yucky! ...So I added cilantro, lime and Louisiana hot sauce and made it a wonderful salsa instead. /shakesfistatuniverse Damn yoooouuuuuus!

My best friend stayed over on the day of street sweeping and we both forgot, so now we both have 40 dollar tickets

To b ehonest, Scy, what you are saying isn't mean at all. What would be mean would be telling me to give up entirely. I think it may be that I'm just insanely bored with nobody to talk to on days off.

I also came to the conclusion that maybe I can give her something for her birthday, but not at the same time. A belated gift.

That being said, still doing nothing is fucking hard. XD I've been kind of working on strategies to keep my mind off this all, and the best method probably has been working. I guess maybe my summer job will be the best place for me right now. XD I do play games, but thn I get bored. I'd take up knitting if I had time to learn. To be honest, if I was 5 again, I'd have TONS of things to take up my time. XD

Finding some new friends could help. Just go socialize or something.

That is exactly what he needs to do, but it is also horrible advice. No one can "just go do" something when under this kind of emotional stress.

Well, I mean, that's how I did it. Obviously not exactly the same situation, but still. Sometimes it really is just that easy.

Or maybe I'm more emotionally detached than I realize.

Well, the one other friend I've had for even longer than the two I'm fighting with is out of college, so once school's out I may be able to see him. Unfortunately, now that I actually have friends to see this year, I can't visit them, because my parents made me get a job at my dad's.

Wake up at 6... work until 6... get home at 7... every week. Last year I was too burned out at the end of the week to want to see friends. XP

I tell my husband about plans, and he forgets them, and then accuses me of never haven told him.

wtf

dude our parents are like that