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Just be professional about it and they should return the courtesy. No one can blame you for accepting a better offer when it comes along.

So I was going to hang out with this girl I was planning on asking out on friday, and what is her status today out of nowhere? In a freaking relationship.

Pardon me abandoning my sheltered little Christian boy shit for a minute: Fuckity fucking fuck.

I'm gonna set her house on fire for you

What the hell, Kino. First my house, now this person's. Since when did you become such an arsonist?

its "that time of the month"

What do I even do, though? Just show up at our appointed meeting place on friday and wait around knowing she won't show up? I'm sure not going to chat her up and ask if we're still hanging out, for obvious reasons. If I show up, and she's there, it'll be really weird for both of us. If I don't show up and she's there, it looks like I'm blowing her off.

I was even hanging out with a good friend of mine who likes me tomorrow to let her down gently, assuming I'd be asking the other person out the following day, and now I'm stuck going out for coffee with her tomorrow, which isn't helping the fact I don't want to go out with her.

Frekking highschool relationship shit.

^_^ I am SO glad that I have opted to skip out on all of this dating shit. It's easier when you just keep people as friends. GO GO INTROVERTED PERSONALITY!!

Sorry, that probably doesn't help. I wish I could help but I obviously have no experience. -_- good luck!

Thanks for all that guys... It's not like it was completely weird for her to get asked out, it just kind of blindsighted me a little. I'll get over it, it's not like we were dating. I'll let you guys know how this turns out.

Hear, hear, Maxine. It's not 'sad' to be single and enjoy it. So annoying to be pitied for choosing to live my life without a SO.

It was more to the GO GO introverted part. Because I'm a firm believer of people as a social creature, not a locked in a dungeon basement one. I really couldn't give less of a shit if people wish to be single all their life and I'm fairly sure that's been made apparent before.

But if you want to go on full tilt with jaded ideas and negative bullshit, then sure. Be my guest. Just like I'll continue to be pretty optimistic about it for myself. This really isn't the place for it nor do I really care enough to even want to discuss it.

So how about dat fire, being a fire and doing dick things like wiping a city off the map essentially and friends losing all their possessions. cool story bro etc.